Friday, 30 October 2009

SELF-CONFIDENCE: THE GATEWAY TO SUCCESS

Self-confidence is associated with "I CAN DO IT". It's opposite to self-pity and inferior complexity. You need to believe in yourself no matter who you are. Perhaps you are not as brilliant as others but you can do more than what you could ever imagined impossible. People around you will tell you that you're not good at anything and that you will not succeed in life because of your average performance. My friend, don't be sad because of what happen to you. Be happy with yourself that you are going to do extraordinary.
Self-confidence is just like a medicine that can cure diseases. Likewise, it can cure inferior complexity and overcome obstacles that are on your way to success. Henry Ford said "Think you can, think you can't, either way, you'll be right". Be careful of what you imagine yourself becoming.
We now know that the human brain like an intricate automatic guidance system will steer your life toward a realization of the self-image you feed into it. Your subconscious will work for you or against you. You make the determination by the self-fulfilling dream or the self-defeating limitations you feed into it.
FOUR CHARACTERISTICS OF SELF-CONFIDENT WINNER
1. Imagination- The self-confident person imagines himself being the person he wants to become. He ignores the way he is now.
2. Commitment- So strong is the desire to achieve his dream that the self-confident person totally commits himself to his goals.
3. Affirmation- First imagine, then commit. Now affirm that you're going to succeed. Verbalize your positive thinking. This will exercise and vitalize your self-confidence. At the same time, it will encourage others to believe in your success.
4. Never give up- Never give up! patience and persistence are the crowning qualities of self-confident champion. Defeat and failure are heretical concepts that can't and will not be contemplated.
HOW TO GET YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE
1. People who inspire you can do wonders in giving birth and bolstering power to self-confidence. Make a habit to seek out friendship and surround yourself with people who build your self-esteem.
2. Pluck, that resourceful spirit that motivates an individual to risk failure in trying to do something on his own really build self-confidence. Self-confidence can't be bought or taught; it must be caught! You catch it when you take a chance and make it.
Now, try the SISO formula! Success In- Success Out! Therefore feed success picture your imagination and success will come out! It is your turn to stop failing and start succeeding. Believe in yourself, NOW, and draw the possibilities out of your being

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